There is no secret that there are a lot of submissives out there. the difference between them is their willingness to submit. Some are more submissive, while some are almost not submissive at all…but they have a fetish that is in the area of “submission”.
During this decade that I’ve been in the bdsm world I’ve had the chance to meet all types of submissive, not so many slaves, and so many so called submissives. The problem is when they think they are subs but they keep behaving like vanilla ones, and in their head they have a problem that the mistress is not meeting their needs. That’s why I’ve always loved people who knew what they wanted.
Last year (although it passed pretty quickly) was a very good year for me, as it was filled with lots of travelling, sight seeing, adventures, good food, inspiring people, great books and music. I love to spend my time doing things I love, and those things I love took a lot of my time last year. So I think I should conclude it was a good year? I suppose so…
And I didn’t even get to mention femdom. That is self implied, a simple look at the name/content of the blog and you can tell it’s one of my passions.
To get back at the name of this blog entry…I don’t believe in any of the shit where you make wishes (formal ones) about a new year or holidays or birthdays and stuff like that. That’s why I am not too good with all the formal things you need to say when you “have to”. But now I don’t have to, I feel I want to share a few things with you, the submissives that are following me, and reading my posts, this is for all of you.
Throughout the time, there is no secret that I have owned many many slaves. For me a “slave” stands for a man who knows what he wants, and that means surrendering to a beautiful, intelligent Lady. Both the slave and the Lady have something in common. They both know what they want. There is this misconception that a slave is someone weak, powerless, little creature. And there is truth in this statement. He has these attributes … and more BUT just in the presence of his Mistress. How wonderful is this to be someone new in the presence of a Lady you adore. And you both know what you want: a sweet game. She wants to own you, you want to surrender.
I know you’ve all asked me how I have been since I haven’t been updating this page often, but I didn’t have time for this. I’ve been busy in the chatroom quite a lot. I’ve traveled quite lately and when I came back lots of you had to see me since you missed me…so you said hehe. Other than traveling and chatting I’ve been enjoying my time outdoors, going out, shopping of course …lol so just the usual, really. Everything is great, and I am leaving on vacation again in 2 weeks.
I wanted to show you a bit of what happened this week. it’s not gonna be my chats or slaves. I will focus more on myself, and on my Goddess legs. They’ve been worshiped and served, the way they were supposed to. So I am pretty happy of how this week turned out findom and femdom wise.
I love the feeling of nylons and stockings on my legs. I’ve worn sexy garter belts and sexy lace corset, which felt amazing on my soft skin. I just love how silky my legs are when I am wearing sheer nylons. I also love lace and satin on my body. Goddess fabrics.
What follows is something so true that I just needed to post here for you to read. It’s simply a brilliant review of this movie no one should ever have to watch. Not even as a punishment!
“Fifty Shades of Misconception: Miss Demeanour’s Honest and Candid Review of Fifty Shades of Grey…
As an avid reader and something of a kinky bitch, I love BDSM themed erotica and have done for many years. So when Fifty Shades of Grey was released and suddenly all my straight laced, vanilla friends were loving it, I thought ‘Wow, this has got to be a good thing right?’ I don’t know about anyone else, but I was bitterly disappointed.
I know, I know, that’s borederline blasphemous to all you Fifty Shades fans, but I can’t help feeling bemused by the phenomenon it’s become.
I’m no literary genius by any standard, so I wouldn’t even attempt to pick at the author’s storytelling ability and/or grammar skills that she’s often come under fire for. For me it was the BDSM aspect that just felt all wrong. Of course, D/s is a very personal and individual thing and everyone’s interpretation of BDSM is different. It was never going to please everyone, but it’s popularity among women all over the world spoke volumes to me.
Inner submissives were crying out for their very own Mr Grey on every continent so of course I had to see what it was all about. After forcing my way through the first book, I consoled myself with the fact that the film HAD to be better, right?! Hmmmm…well it was, to a degree.
It was better in the sense that I didn’t have to read that god forsaken contract 20 times over and I was somewhat impressed by a few of the sexy scenes. There’s no full frontal nudity of course, but you do get to see some bush and quite a few fully nude shots from behind.
There’s some light cropping, flogging, bondage, suspension and blindfolding that were tastefully shot. If you can tolerate all the drivel in between the mediocre kink then yes it’s worth going to see.
However if, like me, you are passionate about your BDSM lifestyle then I would avoid this film at all costs. If actor Jamie Dornan’s comments about the lifestyle weren’t bad enough, it’s obvious to me the man doesn’t possess a Dominant bone in his body, nor did he bother to commit himself to researching his role properly.
1.I’ve read more than 1000 books so far, if not 2000, who counts them anymore? The point is… I read on a daily basis, it’s one of my biggest hobbies. My record was reading Gone with the wind in less than 2 days. And I think I don’t have to mention the size of that novel 😉 But that was in high school, meanwhile my taste in authors has become more complex, more refined, it changed, developed in time, just like wine…
2. I have over 100 pairs of high heels, I might have to move to a bigger place or else I won’t have ANY space left for moving freely around, anymore. I might open a “shop my closet” thingy so I get rid of some of the pairs I don’t wear so often. That way lucky slaves could get a chance to sniff them. It’s even become harder to decide what to wear in the morning, choosing from so many pairs…They say a girl can have only
one2 problems: either nothing to wear, either no space for so many clothes and shoes.
3.I started kicking boys asses from kindergarten, I was a tough little girl and I used to defend my rights from childhood. I stayed like that as I grew up.
4. I eat my food very very spicy. I used to be crazy for indian food (I used to even cook it myself!!) now I fell in love with thai food. I am good at recognising flavours. If I eat one dish, I can go home and cook the same dish just the same. Just because I want to prove something. For me cooking is just a passion…I do it
all the time, when I am in the mood, the rest of the time I have it cooked for me.
5. I’ve visited more than 30 countries so far and still have a big list of places I want to go to. I loved Monte Carlo, Cannes, London, Berlin, Marrakesh, Paris, Athens, Bali, Barcelona, Rome,
Palermo, Munich, DortmundZurich, Wien, etc…(not exactly in that order) I still want to get to Vietnam, India, Australia and the list goeess on and on…
6. I have more than 100 slaves serving me (on and off). They’ve become addicted to me, and they serve me on a regular basis, excepting the cases where they try to stay away, to prove they are not addicted, which doesn’t work out too well for them, since they always get back to me, somehow.
As you can see I am back from my vacation so it’s time for some blogging. This blog post is a request from a lot of you who have been asking me what I’ve been up to and… what I like to to in my free time.
My days were full, been away for a week, traveling, relaxing shopping, catching up with friends. Then back at home to relax even more and dominate my loyal submissives who had been patiently waiting for me.
A lot of you guys want to know more about me, and I am planning to post more about me on here. The truth is I’ve never talked about my hobbies here, except shopping, and camming, those I mentioned a lot.
Other than shopping, I like tennis a lot, and I also like to eat a lot hehe. I love tasting new foods, experiencing new tastes all the time. Today I went out,
It’s summer, it’s hot and you’re probably wondering how I put up with the heat and what I’ve been up to lately.
Also, I’ve been naughty:
In case you’ve been wondering what I have been doing these days. I am posting here some of the most representative moments of these days:
As you can see I love going out in my spare time (and I have lots of that) having a cup of coffee, a croissant or apple pie (yum)