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There is no secret that there are a lot of submissives out there. the difference between them is their willingness to submit. Some are more submissive, while some are almost not submissive at all…but they have a fetish that is in the area of “submission”.

During this decade that I’ve been in the bdsm world I’ve had the chance to meet all types of submissive, not so many slaves, and so many so called submissives. The problem is when they think they are subs but they keep behaving like vanilla ones, and in their head they have a problem that the mistress is not meeting their needs. That’s why I’ve always loved people who knew what they wanted. …(READ MORE)

Last year (although it passed pretty quickly) was a very good year for me, as it was filled with lots of travelling, sight seeing, adventures, good food, inspiring people, great books and music. I love to spend my time doing things I love, and those things I love took a lot of my time last year. So I think I should conclude it was a good year? I suppose so…

And I didn’t even get to mention femdom. That is self implied, a simple look at the name/content of the blog and you can tell it’s one of my passions.

To get back at the name of this blog entry…I don’t believe in any of the shit where you make wishes (formal ones) about a new year or holidays or birthdays and stuff like that. That’s why I am not too good with all the formal things you need to say when you “have to”. But now I don’t have to, I feel I want to share a few things with you, the submissives that are following me, and reading my posts, this is for all of you. …(READ MORE)


Being a slave is not an easy thing, sometimes you’re supposed to do things you don’t like, things that push your to the extremes, things that put you to the test. But you do them, if it is in your nature to really be submissive. If not you’ll complain, you’ll move on to something else. Try new mistresses, try different women. And you won’t be satisfied. You’ll be looking for that little something that resides in you. That submission seed that wants to sprout. Give it a chance to see how it feels. Stop limiting yourself trying to hide who you are. Your place is at your lady’s feet, serving Her, and to see if that’s true, just try it and see if it makes you feel good, if it fulfils you. …(READ MORE)

Throughout the time, there is no secret that I have owned many many slaves. For me a “slave” stands for a man who knows what he wants, and that means surrendering to a beautiful, intelligent Lady. Both the slave and the Lady have something in common. They both know what they want. There is this misconception that a slave is someone weak, powerless, little creature. And there is truth in this statement. He has these attributes … and more BUT just in the presence of his Mistress. How wonderful is this to be someone new in the presence of a Lady you adore. And you both know what you want: a sweet game. She wants to own you, you want to surrender. …(READ MORE)

Sissy slut Chris has new purple panties that he uses to jerk off, he is such a dirty sissy boy! he enjoys being watched and exposed for other to see what he did, he feels ashamed and proud and scared at the same time, I love it. This is his last pic that I took from him during our webcam session. …(READ MORE)

I always love exposing slut Chris from London since he is doing such a good job at wearing panties, he is so dirty, he is such a sissy boy. Look how good he looks in his see through panties. This is the way he is going to go to work from now on. Wearing panties underneath his pants. Just to be the sissy I want him to be. So proud of him!

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I know you’ve all asked me how I have been since I haven’t been updating this page often, but I didn’t have time for this. I’ve been busy in the chatroom quite a lot. I’ve traveled quite lately and when I came back lots of you had to see me since you missed me…so you said hehe. Other than traveling and chatting I’ve been enjoying my time outdoors, going out, shopping of course …lol so just the usual, really. Everything is great, and I am leaving on vacation again in 2 weeks. …(READ MORE)

These days I had quite a few sissies visiting Me and begging Me to have them exposed. And this is one of my favorite things to do. For some reasons I’ve always had a thing for true sissies. Maybe the fact that they are so feminine, so eager to become slutty and to dress up in such lovely outfits…or just panties, but each time I managed to get them sluttier and sluttier. This week for me, in my online chat, it has been about sissies, every day had at least a couple of them come by and tell me how they wanted me to make them dirtier and better and better at becoming more feminine. Maybe because I have this tendency to listen and observe so I can see what they lack and what can be better about them. I do care about how slutty they are and how sluttier they could become if they followed some of my tips. That’s why I’ve always had such a good connection with sissy slaves. Now I am going to expose just the sissies that requested that. …(READ MORE)

This never gets old or boring. My sissy slut is making my day so far. Great pics that I got from his PC, through TeamViewer. He loves my control! You can reach him here +447847598465, he is available now 😉
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More goodies from my sissy slave from London. Am I a PRO DOMME or what? He is such a dirty slut… owned by his Mistress 😉 pictures from our webcam session are right here!
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This is one of my sissies that has managed to hide so far, but right now I am exposing him. He wears such nice lingerie, thought you should all take a good look at him. Webcam mistress sessions available if you click on the pics in the right side of the sidebar, top one. More slave pictures here…
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I wanted to show you a bit of what happened this week. it’s not gonna be my chats or slaves. I will focus more on myself, and on my Goddess legs. They’ve been worshiped and served, the way they were supposed to. So I am pretty happy of how this week turned out findom and femdom wise.

I love the feeling of nylons and stockings on my legs. I’ve worn sexy garter belts and sexy lace corset, which felt amazing on my soft skin. I just love how silky my legs are when I am wearing sheer nylons. I also love lace and satin on my body. Goddess fabrics. …(READ MORE)

What follows is something so true that I just needed to post here for you to read. It’s simply a brilliant review of this movie no one should ever have to watch. Not even as a punishment!

“Fifty Shades of Misconception: Miss Demeanour’s Honest and Candid Review of Fifty Shades of Grey…

*WARNING SPOILERS*

As an avid reader and something of a kinky bitch, I love BDSM themed erotica and have done for many years. So when Fifty Shades of Grey was released and suddenly all my straight laced, vanilla friends were loving it, I thought ‘Wow, this has got to be a good thing right?’ I don’t know about anyone else, but I was bitterly disappointed.

I know, I know, that’s borederline blasphemous to all you Fifty Shades fans, but I can’t help feeling bemused by the phenomenon it’s become.

I’m no literary genius by any standard, so I wouldn’t even attempt to pick at the author’s storytelling ability and/or grammar skills that she’s often come under fire for. For me it was the BDSM aspect that just felt all wrong. Of course, D/s is a very personal and individual thing and everyone’s interpretation of BDSM is different. It was never going to please everyone, but it’s popularity among women all over the world spoke volumes to me.

Inner submissives were crying out for their very own Mr Grey on every continent so of course I had to see what it was all about. After forcing my way through the first book, I consoled myself with the fact that the film HAD to be better, right?! Hmmmm…well it was, to a degree.

It was better in the sense that I didn’t have to read that god forsaken contract 20 times over and I was somewhat impressed by a few of the sexy scenes. There’s no full frontal nudity of course, but you do get to see some bush and quite a few fully nude shots from behind.

There’s some light cropping, flogging, bondage, suspension and blindfolding that were tastefully shot. If you can tolerate all the drivel in between the mediocre kink then yes it’s worth going to see.

However if, like me, you are passionate about your BDSM lifestyle then I would avoid this film at all costs. If actor Jamie Dornan’s comments about the lifestyle weren’t bad enough, it’s obvious to me the man doesn’t possess a Dominant bone in his body, nor did he bother to commit himself to researching his role properly. …(READ MORE)

So…finally home now, from my vacations. I’ve been away to so many beautiful places, first warm ones…

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Hi my slaves, just got back from my vacation, which was amazing, nice places to visit, a lot of relaxing, tanning, shopping, fine dining, desert safari, and all the great things you can do to relax while away.

The nicest thing on vacation was seeing just how loyal my slaves are. For instance slave ben was supposed to send me his slave tax that he sends every 2 weeks, so he sent me this nice message to tell me he placed the slave tax at my feet…how sweet!

And when I checked my email there was his slave tax: …(READ MORE)


1.I’ve read more than 1000 books so far, if not 2000, who counts them anymore? The point is… I read on a daily basis, it’s one of my biggest hobbies. My record was reading Gone with the wind in less than 2 days. And I think I don’t have to mention the size of that novel 😉 But that was in high school, meanwhile my taste in authors has become more complex, more refined, it changed, developed in time, just like wine…

2. I have over 100 pairs of high heels, I might have to move to a bigger place or else I won’t have ANY space left for moving freely around, anymore. I might open a “shop my closet” thingy so I get rid of some of the pairs I don’t wear so often. That way lucky slaves could get a chance to sniff them. It’s even become harder to decide what to wear in the morning, choosing from so many pairs…They say a girl can have only one 2 problems: either nothing to wear, either no space for so many clothes and shoes.

3.I started kicking boys asses from kindergarten, I was a tough little girl and I used to defend my rights from childhood. I stayed like that as I grew up.

4. I eat my food very very spicy. I used to be crazy for indian food (I used to even cook it myself!!) now I fell in love with thai food. I am good at recognising flavours. If I eat one dish, I can go home and cook the same dish just the same. Just because I want to prove something. For me cooking is just a passion…I do it all the time, when I am in the mood, the rest of the time I have it cooked for me.

5. I’ve visited more than 30 countries so far and still have a big list of places I want to go to. I loved Monte Carlo, Cannes, London, Berlin, Marrakesh, Paris, Athens, Bali, Barcelona, Rome, Palermo, Munich, Dortmund Zurich, Wien, etc…(not exactly in that order) I still want to get to Vietnam, India, Australia and the list goeess on and on…

6. I have more than 100 slaves serving me (on and off). They’ve become addicted to me, and they serve me on a regular basis, excepting the cases where they try to stay away, to prove they are not addicted, which doesn’t work out too well for them, since they always get back to me, somehow. …(READ MORE)