I know I haven’t posted on here in a long time and in case you’ve been asking what’s new with me, here is a new post. Only the post is new, since my life is almost the same… It seems the same, but the places I visit are new, the things I shop for are new.
So… where should I start? Well…during the winter time I like to take it easy, I like to get a lot of massages, to go to spas.
What I also like to do during winter time is to take advantage of the winter sales and shop. My favourite thing, but you know that already. There’s something about the way a beautiful woman looks when she is well dressed, it makes her even more desirable and irresistible, and that’s what I aim for… to be simply irresistible!!
These weeks I haven’t posted since I was busy. When I wasn’t just relaxing or shopping or doing something I really enjoy, I was online training my submissives.
You will wonder why I keep bringing shopping into discussion here on the blog, well first of all because it’s something I really love, and secondly because I want to inspire you, to do more of what you love. Life is short and you should really follow my example and do more of that which you love.
Now back to what I was saying…training my submissives… Mostly sissies. Somehow they are attracted to me. I think they get it that I get them. I am good with sissies, I love to train them, tell them how to be better and better each day. And I am so proud when they are getting better at being more feminine or sluttier. Because that is the purpose, to become better at it, like with all things. Yes you can be better at being a sissy. You can put on a sexier lipstick or blush or highlighter and instantly look so more girly and sexy.
The second way you can become a better sissy is taking care of your appearance, and I’m not talking about make up this time…but about lingerie. You can wear lingerie that is so sexy and girly, or simply naughty. There are so many nuances to being a sissy, and you can do it in so many ways. And of course the process can be accelerated in the presence of a good Mistress that can guide you, push you in the right direction, show you the precise steps you can take.
Tonight I had two easy preys fall into my trap… I call it trap because they feel like so, but for me, I feel there’s no trap effort involved, since they just arrive at my feet…somehow. I can’t explain how…yet they are perfectly aware of the things that make them humbly submit before my power.
For instance, slave t. admitted that he tried to stay away for a while…but he had to come back to me, since he felt I was drawing him back somehow.
As a slave when you come back…you have that feeling like you lost the battle, you tried to resist serving me but you had to come back. After you get over that, it starts feeling good, like getting back to where you belong (so I’ve been told).
I know I haven’t posted on here for a long time, that wasn’t my plan…I just got caught up with stuff…
Alright, I haven’t been that busy … I just chose to spend my time relaxing 🙂 Whew I guess it wasn’t that hard to admit the truth…I’ve been busy hanging out with friends, shopping, sunbathing, loots of shopping, getting spoiled at the spa, at the salon, you know…
important stuffgirl stuff.
I think all the girls should feel spoiled like that. Even if it means neglecting your femdomme blog lol …but at least in the summer time when everybody is getting their vacations, just get that time for yourself to pamper yourself.
As you may have noticed, I haven’t been posting a lot on here, but last month has been pretty busy for me with all the photo shoots, travelling…and an ifriends award. Last month I was model of the month on ifriends, and one of my good submissives told me that he thought I already was that every month. How sweet! I told him I couldn’t have been, since I was Mistress of the month all the time hehe.
It’s hard to divide your attention, but receiving this award was pretty nice. And that kept me even busier online, which was nice. I then had to take some time away to recharge my batteries. I now got back home energised and happy to find so many of you missing me and so eager to welcome me back!
My day to day feelings and emotions as Miss Anna’s chastity slave..
To start with and let me be clear, being a long term or permanent chastity slave is an extremely challenging experience! When it comes to ultimate tease and denial she is a trained Lady skilled in the art of this. Being her locked and secured chastity slave has benefits as well; these include, more attentive to her needs and desires, obedience, subservience and training you to think with your actual brain not the one in between your legs.
There is no secret that there are a lot of submissives out there. the difference between them is their willingness to submit. Some are more submissive, while some are almost not submissive at all…but they have a fetish that is in the area of “submission”.
During this decade that I’ve been in the bdsm world I’ve had the chance to meet all types of submissive, not so many slaves, and so many so called submissives. The problem is when they think they are subs but they keep behaving like vanilla ones, and in their head they have a problem that the mistress is not meeting their needs. That’s why I’ve always loved people who knew what they wanted.
Last year (although it passed pretty quickly) was a very good year for me, as it was filled with lots of travelling, sight seeing, adventures, good food, inspiring people, great books and music. I love to spend my time doing things I love, and those things I love took a lot of my time last year. So I think I should conclude it was a good year? I suppose so…
And I didn’t even get to mention femdom. That is self implied, a simple look at the name/content of the blog and you can tell it’s one of my passions.
To get back at the name of this blog entry…I don’t believe in any of the shit where you make wishes (formal ones) about a new year or holidays or birthdays and stuff like that. That’s why I am not too good with all the formal things you need to say when you “have to”. But now I don’t have to, I feel I want to share a few things with you, the submissives that are following me, and reading my posts, this is for all of you.
Being a slave is not an easy thing, sometimes you’re supposed to do things you don’t like, things that push your to the extremes, things that put you to the test. But you do them, if it is in your nature to really be submissive. If not you’ll complain, you’ll move on to something else. Try new mistresses, try different women. And you won’t be satisfied. You’ll be looking for that little something that resides in you. That submission seed that wants to sprout. Give it a chance to see how it feels. Stop limiting yourself trying to hide who you are. Your place is at your lady’s feet, serving Her, and to see if that’s true, just try it and see if it makes you feel good, if it fulfils you.
Throughout the time, there is no secret that I have owned many many slaves. For me a “slave” stands for a man who knows what he wants, and that means surrendering to a beautiful, intelligent Lady. Both the slave and the Lady have something in common. They both know what they want. There is this misconception that a slave is someone weak, powerless, little creature. And there is truth in this statement. He has these attributes … and more BUT just in the presence of his Mistress. How wonderful is this to be someone new in the presence of a Lady you adore. And you both know what you want: a sweet game. She wants to own you, you want to surrender.